I'm Suffocating

Why is it that parents don't think that you're capable of doing anything?

Maybe it's just my parents. They honestly don't think I can wipe my own ass without one of them to assist me. I love my parents to death but it's getting really old how they are always asking:

"Where are you going? Who are you going out with? When will you be home?" I don't know!

My dad is the worst. He's demanding, as soon as I wake up in the morning it's: "okay you need to get such-n-such done." Or when we do yard work, it'll be something stupid like "go pick up these rocks and place them here NEATLY and then when you're done, move them back to the original spot, NEATLY." (a little exaggeration of course) but I just feel like the things I'm being asked, and the stuff I do is useless and impractical.

My father is out of a job and stays at home all day. I think he looks for things to pester about because he can't boss anyone around anymore at work. I think that's all he really did was demand things and he got them.

When he's on the computer he's like a child. He doesn't understand the basic concepts of the computer. I understand that it's because of the generation gap and he never grew up in the digital age, but still, he doesn't see the steps in between to do things. Like, he'll be doing step A, but will see the final step of Z and try and just go there without doing steps B,C,D,E,F etc.

It's to the point where I don't like talking to him, I don't like being in the same room with him because it's not even a hang out session, it's "you have to do this" and "this needs to be done." I understand he is my father, but sometimes I wish my father would loosen up and relax a bit. I think that's why him and I have never gotten along, we don't see eye to eye.

I get frustrated because we have to eat as a family every single night. Ever since we were little we've always had to eat as a family, I fucking hate it!

Anyways, I'm finishing my ranter before I explode. Is anyone dealing with something similar?